Check out some of the reasons below;
LOW SELF ESTEEM
One
personality disorder that most people suffer is low self esteem, hence,
men are not exempted from this. Low self esteem is rating yourself so
low while comparing yourself with another person. If some men could be
wise to know what a woman wants, you will not allow self esteem issue to
belittle your real worth. Marriage is not about comparison. If it were
to be, everybody will be looking out for their mate (with the same IQ, temperament,
maturity or understanding) to marry. Men needs to change their
perception about this kind of ladies if love is the drive for the
relationship.
LACK OF UNDERSTANDING
When
a thing is under-studied, it will be very difficult to handle it
properly. One thing that has been discovered is that men in this
category lack the understanding of how to deal
with these kind of ladies. Apart from the fact that some of them could
be disrespectful or proud, women can easily be handled if you deal with
them in knowledge. What makes a man a player? His ability to deceitfully
play with the life of a woman.
But if a woman is well studied and understood properly, there is a way
to love her and she will worship you irrespective of her achievements or
status.
FEAR
A
key factor that prevents men from marrying educated/rich ladies is
fear. How will I cope with her? How can I fit into her life and status?
Many ‘how’ are the questions most men ask themselves. If your main
reason for marrying her is ‘love’, I mean true love; not for her money
or status, I see no reason why you should be afraid of asking her hand
in marriage. A lot of men are afraid because they felt they will be too
expensive to manage. Money does not make a good marriage but genuine
love and a handful of money.
SOCIETAL BELIEF
There
are some things that lack an element of truth which most people do
accept as true. Of such is that wealthy or educated ladies cannot make a
good wife or better mothers. Men are the carrier of this belief, hence
it is untrue. When a woman makes up her mind to be good, nothing can
change that decision except she is treated harshly. Do not join the
society to spread this unbiased belief about women. READ MORE: http://news.naij.com/61849.html
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